On being a Mom...

Mother's Day gives me a moment to reflect on the two lives that gave me that new definition. One that took a while to sit well with me. That took some time for me to realize wasn't the only word that defined me…but it would be one of the biggest. 

Because these two lives have changed me. They have forced me out of my comfort zone on more occasions than I want to remember. Made me be a confrontative mama bear, and made me understand that to have them stand up for what they need I had to do the same. 

So I have changed a lot. And grown. And hopefully I am a more direct person now. And truthful. And loving. And I try really hard to still be fun and spontaneous. And to figure out what they think is fun and to make it a priority. Because they have made my life bigger than I ever thought it could get. 

And they have helped me to become who I want to be. Without me realizing it was a journey I needed to take. 

To my little girl tribe. I will love you forever. 

Mom